“What are you coaching proper now?”
That is in all probability the commonest query I get requested by my fitness-loving pals.
My reply is nearly at all times the identical: “I’m coaching handstands. Sure, nonetheless.”
I first began dabbling in handstands again in 2013. I took a couple of grownup gymnastics lessons and was instantly hooked. How might one thing so seemingly easy — standing the wrong way up in your arms — be so onerous in follow?
As a late-blooming athlete, I didn’t do my first push-ups till my early twenties (and my first respectable push-ups years after that). It took me even longer to have the ability to do different fundamental body weight expertise like pull-ups and single leg squats. By the point I enrolled in that gymnastics class, nonetheless, I’d constructed up an affordable quantity of energy and stamina by way of years of HIIT and body weight exercises. But my dream of holding a handstand with out a wall for longer than it takes to snap a photograph for Instagram nonetheless appeared lightyears away.
I pressed my gymnastics teacher for recommendation. He didn’t have a lot, aside from telling me that studying to steadiness in a handstand is extremely tough and most of the people won’t ever study [[(I only later realized he was a punk kid that barely knew more than I did about handstands) >> I like the humor here, but I’m not sure you need it. If you’re looking to shorten up, I’d cut this part!]]. Fortunately, he sensed my enthusiasm and despatched me to Dominik, a former circus performer, and my first actual hand balancing coach. Thus my handstand journey formally started.
Almost eight years later, I’m nonetheless at it. I surpassed my first aim of holding a five-second freestanding handstand ages in the past. And whereas many individuals would have moved on to the following factor, I didn’t cease. Having prematurely stop most issues in my life up till that time, I wished to see how far I might go as somebody with no pure potential or earlier gymnastics expertise.
I had caught the handstand bug. However much more than that, I had caught the mastery bug.
We Can All Intention for Mastery
When most of us consider masters, we consider athletes like Michael Jordan and Laird Hamilton, thinkers like Einstein and Invoice Gates. We consider black belts, Grandmasters, and different superstars who’ve risen to the highest of their craft.
However principally, we consider these folks as others — as in, folks not like us. Individuals blessed with expertise and drive to change into masters of their craft and fulfill their potential. (Sure!!)
This is similar response I had after I was first coaching at circus college. I used to be mesmerized by the expertise of these round me. What I didn’t consider was simply how lengthy they’d been working to get to the extent the place they had been at — and the probability that if I labored as onerous as they did for so long as they did, I might get there, too.
Mastery relies upon much less on preliminary expertise than the willingness to select a path and keep on it.
As George Leonard writes in The Method of Aikido: Life Classes from an American Sensei:
“What we name “mastery” will be outlined as that mysterious course of by way of which what’s at first tough and even unattainable turns into simple and pleasurable by way of diligent, affected person, long-term follow.”
Selecting a Path and Sticking to It
I’ve wished to stop coaching handstands extra occasions than I can depend over time. Normally, that is after I’ve been caught on a plateau for a protracted whereas or after I notice simply how far I’ve to go to achieve my endless targets.
However I’ve saved at it, as a result of regardless of the countless ups and downs, selecting a path and sticking to it has introduced me an incredible quantity of goal and pleasure. You may guess I’ll be that 80-year-old nonetheless rocking handstands 😉
As my expertise reveals, anybody can get on the trail to mastery. Your path may not be handstands. It could possibly be associated to artwork, or music, or one thing else solely. It should inevitably take some experimenting and plenty of trial and error earlier than you discover one thing that sticks.
Above all else, mastery requires a alternative and dedication.
When you determine on the trail, these 5 keys might help:
Cease worrying you don’t have sufficient expertise. Certain, a few of us begin out extra proficient than others. However focus, persistence, and perception that our efforts will make a distinction (I.e., the hallmark qualities of a progress mindset) matter extra in the long term than expertise itself.
Cease worrying about “wasted effort.” Progress isn’t linear, as a lot as we wish it to be. Not each motion will lead you straight to the place you wish to go. The important thing to sticking with one thing for the long term is to reframe all effort as follow, by no means wasted.
Deal with failures as studying alternatives. Individuals on the prime of their craft didn’t get that method as a result of they had been afraid of failure. The truth is, most profitable folks solely grew to become profitable as a result of they had been keen to fail again and again. Be taught out of your failures, and transfer on.
Preserve a newbie’s thoughts. Mastery in any craft requires humility. You may’t get higher in case you assume you already know every little thing. All the time be open to studying from others with extra expertise and knowledge than you. Feeling like a clumsy newbie is perhaps uncomfortable, but it surely’s price it if you wish to enhance.
Be taught to like the trail. Progress occurs in small spurts of progress adopted by lengthy plateaus. Should you’ve reached a plateau, it might be that your present plateau is precisely the place you might want to be proper now as a way to additional internalize your current progress. Be taught to belief the method and settle for that almost all of your time shall be spent on the plateau.
“Maybe we’ll by no means know the way far the trail can go, how a lot a human being can actually obtain, till we notice that the last word reward just isn’t a gold medal however the path itself.” — George Leonard